Sozo for (New) Couples

What we’ve written is a workbook. She’ll have a copy, so will he. There are chapters on all the subjects that need to be covered, communications, arguing well, sex, children, families, finances, boundaries, complete with Thought Stops!

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Wonderfully Free

It’s been a month or more since our last Sozo for Couples’ blog and I’ve been trying to think of a way to tie what I want to mention in with Couples’ Sozo. The link, such as it is, is tenuous, so forgive me… I make the assumption that most, if not all, the people […]

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Emotional Rescue!

You may not know it as such but the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon is that odd sensation when you start to notice the same thing turning up wherever you look and everywhere you are. In Christian circles it’s often 2.22, either as a verse or a time of day… I mention this because the subject of men’s […]

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Avoiding the Elephant

Repeat after me: There doesn’t have to be a problem in a marriage before coming for a Sozo for Couples. Now write it out 100 times. Do you need to have a problem before going for a Sozo? No you don’t. We all have an annual Sozo MoT just as a check up. We suggest […]

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Relational Sozo

When we first started thinking about Sozo for Couples and how it would work we always had in our minds’ eye that it was going to be a blessing for… surprise, surprise… couples. Now whether those couples were going to be married or not was something that we felt wasn’t going to be important. Whether […]

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Tackling Intimate Issues

Recently I was reflecting on a discussion I was involved in about those times when intimate issues crop up in a Sozo for Couples’ session, which, of course, they do. It shouldn’t come as a surprise that questions around the use of pornography or fantasy occur between a couple, as well as all the ‘expected’ […]

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Time for Testimony!

Everyone loves a testimony, and those of us who are Sozo for Couples facilitators love to hear from each other how our Couples’ Sozos have gone, what we’ve learned and, most important of all, how the couple were blessed by their Sozo. In this blog I’ve pulled together some of the reports that have appeared […]

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Orphans (no more)…

I wonder if you’ve come across the Orphan Spirit? I picture it as rather sad and lonely, not unlike that well known and mass-produced painting of the little boy with huge eyes welling with tears.

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Learning to Love

Something that is, when you get to think about it, fairly obvious but that hadn’t really hit me forcefully before is that one can only love to the degree that one is oneself loved.

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The Purpose Train

We’ve added something to Sozo for Couples training! It’s something that we’ve learned from Stephen deSilva and comes from his teaching around Financial Sozo and the Prosperous Soul/Home. It’s called the Purpose Train and Steve has very kindly allowed us to use it. We think that understanding purpose is a vital ingredient in a successful […]

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